• Singleness

    Why God May Have You Single

    Have you ever wondered why you are single? If you did, you discovered the correct blog post today. By now, you may have already heard my story. I never dated, never went on a date, and never had a boyfriend. I am the true definition of completely single. I have been single my entire life. The only relationships I have been in are the ones with my families and friends. I never understood why I was single. Was it my looks? My attitude? My personality? Was I not putting myself out there and making myself available? Were my accomplishments intimidating to guys and that’s why they never pursued? So many…

  • Healing

    How To Heal From Insecurities Part II

    When someone tells you something that does not line up with what God has spoken over you, it is a lie. What you do with that lie is vital. The enemy wants you to believe those lies so that you can stay defeated and bounded. God wants you to break free from those lies so that you can live the full and abundant life He has set out for you. People perish for lack of knowledge (Hosea 4:6) but when you gain knowledge and know the truth, you will be forever set free (John 8:32). Unfortunately, we cannot control what others say or do to us; however, we can control…

  • Healing

    Don’t Stop

    Whatever you do, do not stop. That is something that I have been telling myself these past few weeks because I have felt ready to give up. But no matter how emotionally, mentally, and physically drained I am. No matter what is not going my way. No matter how hard the enemy is attacking me, I have to keep going. I have to keep pushing through. I have to keep fighting. I want the same for you. It’s not easy when you feel by yourself and you feel like you have no one to turn too. It’s not easy when you feel like you are suffocating and being pressed on…

  • Healing

    Faithful In The Small

    God is asking you today if you can be faithful in the small. You may not be where you want to be in life but can you still be faithful with where you are in this season of your life? It may seem like everyone is going ahead of you. It may seem like you are in a dry season and you’ve been in it for years. It may seem like nothing is going your way but can you still be faithful? Can you still trust Him? Can you still walk in obedience? According to the Word of God, faith is defined as, “Being sure of what we hope for…

  • Singleness

    Never Had A Boyfriend? Never Dated?

    So what’s my story? How come I never had a boyfriend? How come I never been on a date? I’ve been told that I am too picky, too uptight, that God has probably brought Him already and I rejected him, that I’m letting too many guys down, etc. If I was to listen to what everyone had said, I would have been in wrong relationships, hurting these guys, getting hurt, but most importantly, walking out of my destiny. Don’t get me wrong. I never had a bunch of guys knocking down my front door but I did have guys approach. Here’s the story: In my late teens, early 20s, I…

  • Healing

    God Forgives You!

    I have noticed all too often that when people sin, mess up, do things that they weren’t supposed to do, put themselves in situations they have no business being in, go completely against what God has said, and/or ignore red flags, instead of going to God, they run away from Him. They cover their mistakes. They hide it. They walk around thinking that it’s all good but deep down, the guilt, shame, embarrassment, and hurt weighs so heavily on them. Is this you? If it is, don’t be discouraged. That’s how the enemy operates. That heaviness that you are feeling is all the enemy’s doing to try to separate you…