God will always reveal His truth to every lie of the enemy. The enemy wants you operating in brokenness when God wants you to operate from a place of wholeness. His truth will give you a sense of peace and provision as you navigate dating and relationships. Today’s post continues on with each lie combated with truth. Lie: The type of man that I want does not exist so it is best to just settle. Truth: So there are 2 parts to this lie. Number 1, it is true that the type of man that I want does not exist. That is very true. God does not design our spouses…

Should I be in a relationship right now? That is a question that you have to ask yourself. Whether you are currently in a relationship or single, you have to know if being in a relationship is the right move for you in this season of your life. The desire for companionship is real. The longing for that attention, that touch, that embrace is natural. I get it. I’ve been there where I wanted nothing more than to be in a relationship. I was tired of lonely and horny nights. I was tired of not having anyone to talk too. I was tired of going grocery shopping by myself and…

In a previous blog post, I wrote about some relationship lies that I had to unlearn. Navigating dating and relationships are not easy but approaching it with the right mindset can make all the difference. With every lie comes a truth, and today, I want to discuss the truths to some of these lies. Lie: It is unlikely that someone would want to date or marry a virgin. Truth: I believe that if the person that you are in a relationship with is from God and that person has their own personal relationship with God, then your decision to remain a virgin until marriage will be seen as something beautiful and…

*This post is for those who are serious about dating God’s way.* God never said no to dating. He never said no to being in a relationship. What I believe God wants is for you to be intentional. We have to be a generation that stops playing games with people’s hearts. If you are not ready for commitment, then you have no business dating or being in a relationship. If you are ready for the commitment, then the next question you need to ask yourself is, ‘What is the purpose of me dating and being in a relationship?” If you are looking for validation, approval, and/or acceptance, then, you are…

There are so many lies that we hear and come to believe when dating and relationships are involved. Here is what I used to believe: It is unlikely that someone would want to date or marry a virgin. It’s only women who are virgins and are waiting it out until marriage. My standards are too high and that is why I never met someone who could meet them. The type of man that I want does not exist so it is best to just settle. You need to date around in order to find the one. Men after God’s own heart doesn’t exist. Waiting it out does not work. Everyone…

If you are not married, and you are dating and/or in a serious committed relationship where you want to wait it out until you say, “I do”, let’s not awaken anything before its time (Song of Solomon 8:4). You want to be in a relationship where you protect your partner’s purity, and where your partner protects your purity. It can be hard to wait when hormones and sexual desires are there but you will be glad that you chose to wait in the long run. *You want someone that will lead you to God and not the bedroom. This kind of person is worth waiting for.* -Ali How do you…