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A Message to Singles and Childless
Scripture tells us that marriage and children are a reward from God from the beginning of Genesis. Therefore, it can become very confusing and disheartening to a single person who desires to be married or a couple who desires children and it hasn’t happened. If you have never experienced dating and/or being in a relationship, if you have experienced dating and/or being in a relationship and it wasn’t a good/healthy experience, or you’ve tried countless of times to have a child with your spouse and it has yet to happen for you, you often feel a wide range of emotions: disappointment, anxiety, helplessness, anger, insecurities, self-pity, guilt, depression, etc. The…
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Speak It Into Existence
As we embark on the start of 2022, I am believing for a prosperous year for myself as well as for you. A lot happened in 2021 that could have completely destroyed us and caused us to give up on life if it was not for the grace, love, and mercy of our Heavenly Father. Despite those storms and shortcomings, we made it. We are here today. Everything that took place in 2021 was to prepare us for 2022 because things are about to start shifting! Let this year be a year like no other. Let us make up our minds that we will speak our desires and needs into…
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Truth To Relationship Lies Part IV
Lie: I am not making myself available enough to “be found”. Truth: I have heard this all too often. “You need to go out more” is a phrase that never gets old. Trust when I say that if you were meant to be found by now, it would have happened already regardless of if you are a social butterfly and like social events, or you are an introvert and homebody kind of person. If you are the latter, God could make it happen where something breaks and/or needs fixing in your home and you need to call maintenance, and the maintenance person is it. You realize you need a few…
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Don’t Stop Being You!
I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh. Ezekiel 36:26 Don’t ever stop being you because of what someone said or did to you. All too often, when we are taken advantage of, taken for granted, abused, neglected, violated or whatever it may be, our first response is to shut down. What comes out of that response is a hardened and numbed heart. A heart that does not allow people in. A heart that does not forgive. A heart that creates dysfunction in our thoughts and actions. You…
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Feeling Like an Outcast as a Christian, a Single, and a Virgin
Have you ever felt different from your social group? If your answer is yes, then I say we have more in common than most. I went out a few weeks ago with some ladies and as the evening drew on, I noticed that I was becoming more and more quiet, and just about ready to go home. The topics of the conversation involved birth control, boyfriends and relationships, sex, and seeing a psychic medium. Not my topics of choice at all. The ladies were invested in knowing about the best birth control and what the other uses. Me? No experience and minimal knowledge when it comes to birth control so…
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My 1 Year Anniversary of SC7!
What a year!! Today marks the one year anniversary of my “baby” SingleChronicles7! I cannot believe all that God has allowed me to do within one year of SC7. SC7 started because I had come to a point in my life where I was ready to share my struggles in hopes of helping someone else who may be going through. God gave me the confidence to go forward and once I took that step of faith, I never looked back. Let’s take a look at my journey: *I started out on a free blogging platform website September 11th, 2020 and then decided to create and design my very own website…
