Ever since last year, but moreso this year, I have been growing weary in my singleness. The pain of loneliness and the tears of sadness would constantly overtake me. When I was in my early 20s, I had the desire to be married and have children (at least one) by no later than age 27/28.  When I started this ministry, SingleChronicles7, at 25 years old in September 2020, I was still very much single but I also was beginning to feel content in my singleness. I loved my singleness and took that step of faith to share my journey with you here on my website and through my other…

These past few months have taught me so many things as I continue to navigate this season of singleness with God, and I want to share it with you.    Forgiveness One of the things that I have learned has been to be quick to forgive yourself just as God has the moment you ask Him. This scripture, “As far as the East is from the West, so far has he removed our transgressions from us (Psalm 103:12),” brings so much healing to me. God forgives us immediately and remembers our sin no more (Hebrews 8:12).  The moment we mess up, our immediate response is to hide and run away…

When you have that intimate and personal relationship with God, you should know that your dating and relationship standards should not be according to the world but according to the Word. One thing that I continue to learn on my singleness journey is to never be afraid of singleness but rather, be afraid of wasting your time committing to a pointless relationship. Even developing a friendship with someone who you know likes you but is not what God has for you is time wasted. You want to be able to grow closer towards God and your goals as you matriculate in life. Anything less is a distraction.  As we embark…

I am single by choice. That is something that I have realized while listening to a sermon at home one Sunday morning. I shared in one of my last blog posts regarding 3-4 guys who have had interest in me this year for some time now. The reason why I never allowed myself to open up to them was because they were not for me. I could tell by the way they carried themselves. I observe character and actions more than anything. As you begin to heal and truly see yourself the way God sees you, understanding your worth and value, your appetite in the kind of person you choose…

  It has been 3 full years since the birth of SingleChronicles7, and when I look back, I am in awe of how much God has healed me in so many ways especially in my once distorted view of singleness and purity, but most importantly, how I have touched the lives of so many people like you. I did not know what SingleChronicles7 would mean when I first gave birth to this ministry back in September 2020. It started out as a simple blog on a free platform; a platform that my twin sister had used for a project in one of her classes in college and told me about.…

As I continue to grow in my relationship with God, the way that I see myself and how I carry myself has evolved. Although I struggle with my own insecurities from time to time, I am no longer that girl that sits in it. I acknowledge the thoughts, explore within myself why I feel that way, and then kill it with what God says about me, for me, and over me. My relationship with God has taught me to never settle and to keep my standards. If I am honest with you, I can tell you that I have yet to meet a guy that is worth me coming out…