“Wow…” is all I can say as today, Wednesday, May 28th, 2025 marks the exact date 10 years ago when God gave me the Word about writing my love story. That date was Thursday, May 28th, 2015. The college semester was over and I remember lying on my parent’s bed in their bedroom on that sunny Spring afternoon reading a book recommended by my friend on my kindle, and God began speaking to me. I just turned 20 years old three months ago (February 8th, 2015). I turned over to get my phone from the nightstand on my father’s side of the bed, opened up the Microsoft Word app on…

  So you’re reading my title and you may be wondering, “Such a title! What do you mean by that?” Well, let me explain…   Being single should be a joyous and wonderful “state” to be in but for some reason, those who are single see it as otherwise. If you’ve walked the same path that I have, you have probably been blamed for your singleness. Like you’re the reason why you are single. And you know what? That may be the case. You may be choosing to be single in this season of your life for whatever reason and that is more than okay. But for those who never…

  Ever since last year, but moreso this year, I have been growing weary in my singleness. The pain of loneliness and the tears of sadness would constantly overtake me. When I was in my early 20s, I had the desire to be married and have children (at least one) by no later than age 27/28.  When I started this ministry, SingleChronicles7, at 25 years old in September 2020, I was still very much single but I also was beginning to feel content in my singleness. I loved my singleness and took that step of faith to share my journey with you here on my website and through my other…

These past few months have taught me so many things as I continue to navigate this season of singleness with God, and I want to share it with you.    Forgiveness One of the things that I have learned has been to be quick to forgive yourself just as God has the moment you ask Him. This scripture, “As far as the East is from the West, so far has he removed our transgressions from us (Psalm 103:12),” brings so much healing to me. God forgives us immediately and remembers our sin no more (Hebrews 8:12).  The moment we mess up, our immediate response is to hide and run away…

When you have that intimate and personal relationship with God, you should know that your dating and relationship standards should not be according to the world but according to the Word. One thing that I continue to learn on my singleness journey is to never be afraid of singleness but rather, be afraid of wasting your time committing to a pointless relationship. Even developing a friendship with someone who you know likes you but is not what God has for you is time wasted. You want to be able to grow closer towards God and your goals as you matriculate in life. Anything less is a distraction.  As we embark…

I am single by choice. That is something that I have realized while listening to a sermon at home one Sunday morning. I shared in one of my last blog posts regarding 3-4 guys who have had interest in me this year for some time now. The reason why I never allowed myself to open up to them was because they were not for me. I could tell by the way they carried themselves. I observe character and actions more than anything. As you begin to heal and truly see yourself the way God sees you, understanding your worth and value, your appetite in the kind of person you choose…