Society, family, friends, and even strangers make singleness sound like such a horrible curse and state to be in. Nobody seems to care about the fact that you just graduated, are in your career, moved to a new state, found a brand new apartment/home, purchased/leased your very first car, found some extracurricular activities to get involved in, traveled, wrote your own book, are healthy, connected with the right people to help you with your craft, or started college, your own business, social media page, ministry, blog, podcast or YouTube channel. For some reason, people seem to care more about your relationship status than the things that you have going for…

I allowed God to write my love story on May 28th, 2015. That was the day I surrendered this area of my life to Him at 20 years old. He gave me a promise to wait on Him and He will exceed my expectations. God told me that while He is molding me into the young woman I am supposed to be in Christ, at the same time, He is molding and shaping my future husband. He has someone special in store for me, but only if I wait. Dating and multiple relationships won’t be for me because God said that when He finally brings a person into my life,…

I am officially 27 years old [as of 5 days ago] and yes, I am still very much single. Do I like being single? I do. It took me years to get to this place of peace in my singleness, and I am glad God did not give it to my pleas. I am glad that He worked hard on me in those dark hours of longing because I am very much content in my singleness at 27 years old. There are so many things that I want to do and accomplish in my single season, and I gave that list to God December 2021. Growing up, I always thought…

Have you ever wondered why you are single? If you did, you discovered the correct blog post today. By now, you may have already heard my story. I never dated, never went on a date, and never had a boyfriend. I am the true definition of completely single. I have been single my entire life. The only relationships I have been in are the ones with my families and friends. I never understood why I was single. Was it my looks? My attitude? My personality? Was I not putting myself out there and making myself available? Were my accomplishments intimidating to guys and that’s why they never pursued? So many…

So what’s my story? How come I never had a boyfriend? How come I never been on a date? I’ve been told that I am too picky, too uptight, that God has probably brought Him already and I rejected him, that I’m letting too many guys down, etc. If I was to listen to what everyone had said, I would have been in wrong relationships, hurting these guys, getting hurt, but most importantly, walking out of my destiny. Don’t get me wrong. I never had a bunch of guys knocking down my front door but I did have guys approach. Here’s the story: In my late teens, early 20s, I…

Your season of singleness is a special season to be in. There are so many things that you can do and achieve. One of the best things you can do for yourself, for your future spouse, and even the next generation is… to learn yourself. Find out your likes and dislikes. Find out what you will and will not tolerate. And most importantly, find out your strengths and weaknesses. What are you good at? What positive traits do you carry? On the flip side, what are you not so good at? What are some things that you struggle with? Me personally? I know that I love helping people. I love…