Can I be honest with you? Like really really honest? There are times when I feel so content in being single. I am able to move to the beat of my own drums. I can go out whenever I want to and come home late without having to check in with anyone. I don’t have to make breakfast, lunch, or dinner if I’m not in the mood; and on the flip side, I can make breakfast, lunch, or dinner for myself when I am in the mood without having to make it for anyone else. If there is something that I want, I can easily buy it because my money…

What I am learning during my time in Canada is that you just have to do it. Whatever it is that you want out of life, you just have to be courageous and bold enough to go after it especially if you are very much single like myself. Don’t live your life waiting for others to come along with you because you may end up disappointed. Let me clear in saying that I am not saying that the people around you will ghost you or leave you hanging. What I am saying is that the people in your life more likely than not have different life schedules than you especially…

Society, family, friends, and even strangers make singleness sound like such a horrible curse and state to be in. Nobody seems to care about the fact that you just graduated, are in your career, moved to a new state, found a brand new apartment/home, purchased/leased your very first car, found some extracurricular activities to get involved in, traveled, wrote your own book, are healthy, connected with the right people to help you with your craft, or started college, your own business, social media page, ministry, blog, podcast or YouTube channel. For some reason, people seem to care more about your relationship status than the things that you have going for…

I allowed God to write my love story on May 28th, 2015. That was the day I surrendered this area of my life to Him at 20 years old. He gave me a promise to wait on Him and He will exceed my expectations. God told me that while He is molding me into the young woman I am supposed to be in Christ, at the same time, He is molding and shaping my future husband. He has someone special in store for me, but only if I wait. Dating and multiple relationships won’t be for me because God said that when He finally brings a person into my life,…

I am officially 27 years old [as of 5 days ago] and yes, I am still very much single. Do I like being single? I do. It took me years to get to this place of peace in my singleness, and I am glad God did not give it to my pleas. I am glad that He worked hard on me in those dark hours of longing because I am very much content in my singleness at 27 years old. There are so many things that I want to do and accomplish in my single season, and I gave that list to God December 2021. Growing up, I always thought…

Have you ever wondered why you are single? If you did, you discovered the correct blog post today. By now, you may have already heard my story. I never dated, never went on a date, and never had a boyfriend. I am the true definition of completely single. I have been single my entire life. The only relationships I have been in are the ones with my families and friends. I never understood why I was single. Was it my looks? My attitude? My personality? Was I not putting myself out there and making myself available? Were my accomplishments intimidating to guys and that’s why they never pursued? So many…