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Dating With Purpose & Clear Intentions
The older I get, the more I understand the ins and outs of what makes a successful relationship last. Learning through friends and family as well as watching and listening to couples has helped me in my own journey. Whether you date recreationally [not looking for anything serious, no intent on marriage] or date intentionally [taking it seriously, intent to potentially marry the person you are dating], please, for the sake of everyone’s heart, let this be known from the jump. However you want to date is totally up to you but make sure it is clearly stated so that there is no confusion and both parties are on the…
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Enjoy Your Singleness
Society, family, friends, and even strangers make singleness sound like such a horrible curse and state to be in. Nobody seems to care about the fact that you just graduated, are in your career, moved to a new state, found a brand new apartment/home, purchased/leased your very first car, found some extracurricular activities to get involved in, traveled, wrote your own book, are healthy, connected with the right people to help you with your craft, or started college, your own business, social media page, ministry, blog, podcast or YouTube channel. For some reason, people seem to care more about your relationship status than the things that you have going for…
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Patience Is Key
We live in such a fast paced society where delayment is not an option. If you want it, go after it now. Instant gratification is the way to go. So can you truly blame someone when they develop this kind of mindset? Growing up, I always wanted things to go my way now. I did not want to wait. I did not want to reason or come to some type of resolution or compromise. It was either my way or the highway, and that created an impatient spirit within me as an adult. As an adult, I want a house now. I want all my bills paid off completely now.…
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God Didn’t Choose Them. He Chose You.
“But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.” 1 Samuel 16:7 God can choose anyone that He wants too to carry out His purpose. He can choose the more qualified. The most attractive. The best physically fit person. The one who has an impeccable resume. The one who has traveled the world and is financially stable. The one who is completely healed, set free, and delivered. The confident, bold, and courageous one. A homeowner rather…
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How Do You Know God Is Calling You?
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Allow God To Write Your Love Story
I allowed God to write my love story on May 28th, 2015. That was the day I surrendered this area of my life to Him at 20 years old. He gave me a promise to wait on Him and He will exceed my expectations. God told me that while He is molding me into the young woman I am supposed to be in Christ, at the same time, He is molding and shaping my future husband. He has someone special in store for me, but only if I wait. Dating and multiple relationships won’t be for me because God said that when He finally brings a person into my life,…